Your Own Smartphone
The child and the family are mostly ready.
DECISION-MAKING HELP · ABOUT 8 MIN.
A shared guide to help you decide before getting your first device.
Outcome: A suitable starting recommendation for your child and your family.
There's no perfect age that works for every child.
What's more important is whether the child understands basic rules, knows how to ask for help, and can use the device responsibly.
It's also important that the family has time for setup, support, and regular conversations.
This check will help you find the right way to get started — without judging or diagnosing the child.
AI-generated contentAfter this check, you'll have a clearer idea:
Answer the questions together — calmly and honestly. There’s no passing or failing.
It's not about being perfect. What's important is that agreements are generally understood and mostly followed.
Compare your options. It's about finding the right start — not just a specific product.
The child and the family are mostly ready.
The child is generally ready but needs clear technical and time limits.
Being reachable is important, but apps, browsers, purchases, or contacts should be limited at first.
Certain skills should be practiced together first.
In the guide 'Your First Smartphone', you'll set up your child’s account, security, apps, purchases, and the 30-day review step by step.
Set Up Your First SmartphoneIn the family smartphone agreement, you set clear rules for screen time, purchases, apps, privacy, contacts, and asking for help.
The First Smartphone
From child accounts to a 30-day check — start safely, step by step.
Family Phone Agreement
A shared promise — not a punishment. Rules apply to everyone. Clarity, trust, and safe habits.
Conversation Guides
How to start, what to ask, what to avoid — and how to respond to anger, silence, or shame.
Screen Time Without Power Struggles
Understand where conflicts arise — then set clear rules in the family phone agreement.
Privacy Check-Up
A quick check for profiles, messages, location, and device access — no security guarantee.
Password and Account Security
Strong passphrases, secure recovery, two-factor protection — and a clear plan for emergencies.
The First Social Media Account
Review together, set up safely, and discuss again after 30 days.
This check is a general family and conversation guide. It is not a medical, psychological, or educational assessment. The result is a guideline and not a definitive evaluation of the child.